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Twenty-three-year-old Raj (let’s call him that for now) is giving away their secrets to a total stranger — me.“Yes, she is on Tinder,”…“Haha, he does not get any likes,”… this one’s girlfriend is on Tinder and he has swiped her left.” Denials flow thick and fast around the table and mock fights erupt amid a lot of giggles and bantering.
Self-Diagnosis: Identifying the true problem behind your behavior so you can stop it, fix it, and get over it Chances are, if you’re having trouble dating, you — and you alone — have something to do with it.
People often think the problem is external — “My dates have all been jerks” is a common reason I hear for why things never work out — but I can tell you from years of experience that while external factors play a part, most of the time, most people’s problems with dating and finding love are their own. If you can’t make it to a good matchmaker or a good life coach or a good therapist, anything that gets you to look at yourself and your behavior — and gets you in the habit of being more self-aware and self-reflective — can be tremendously helpful when embarking on the search for love.
Which is why identifying yourself and the types of people you commonly date is so important.
Our expectation that these events will occur in that specific order help guide our behavior and affect what we expect to happen at certain times.
We employ scripts in our relationships too, establishing expectations of behaviors which are performed in particular sequences.
My "lunch tray moments" consisted of going from table to table, trying to sit down, and kids telling me I wasn't welcome to sit with them, and then eating by myself in the detention room, the only place that would have me.