Dating from another country
Long-distance relationships can be very difficult for all the obvious reasons.
They tend to fare better with long-term partners because they already have a foundation established in their relationship to sustain the stresses involved with the painful separations that come with their lifestyles of distance.
Not too long ago I met a guy in a culinary festival. The thing is we met the last five days of his exchange program and in the little time we spent together, I felt like we connected really well.
and was part of a study for a semester program in PR.
You think you’re practically fluent because you can say “thanks” and “good morning”, but when you try to speak [insert language here] the response can be just the tiniest bit awkward: Let’s not pretend you starting dating him or her for any other reason besides the food.
Ok, just kidding, but learning about your partner’s culture through cuisine can be amazing!
Oh, and I got to fall deeply in love in one of the most romantic cities in the world…I guess that’s pretty cool too.
But, just like any relationship, there are some aspects that are extremely difficult and painful.
Short-term encounters and vacation romances, such as yours, are initially built on infatuation, lust and chemistry and haven’t had an opportunity to mature and evolve.
Soon enough, you’re riding on the back of his Vespa through winding roads to watch the sunset from a spot that only locals know about thinking, is this real life??
That’s exactly what happened to me when I studied abroad in Granada, Spain last spring and, BOY, do I wish I had someone warn me that such a romance isn’t all rainbows and butterflies.
Have you met someone special on your travels from a different country and are not sure whether you should go for it?
Even though the logistics of falling in love with someone from the other side of the world can be difficult, dating someone from another country has definite advantages, such as: It’s a fact; there is something about an accent that makes someone more attractive.